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Saturday, March 05, 2005

BODY LANGUAGE SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS

Well I read many times in magazines about women body language that can helps men to analyze whether she is interested or not ??! But NEVER found the opposite that shows if men r interested or not which kept me wondering whether they have in the 1st place??! Yup they have, I just found out, and it caused me to laugh and remembered some article I read named “Body language speaks louder than words”.
Here are some that I would like 2 share so we girls can know as well :P

The approach:

If a man is interested, as he approaches you he will pull in his tummy, puff up his chest and stand taller. Then the preening begins...!
Preening:
This will take the form of:
-Reaching for his throat and straightening his tie
-Smoothing his collar
-Brushing imaginary dust from his shoulder
-Rearranging his shirt, cufflinks or other clothing
-Smoothing his hair


Key signs to show he is interested:

Hooking his thumbs in his belt:
(When used with other men this means they are staking their territory and showing that they're not afraid).
Body positioning:
Body positioning is key, if he's interested he'll turn his body towards you. If you're standing or sitting in a group look at his feet, if one or both of them are pointing in your direction it's a good sign.
Holding your gaze:
Holding your gaze for even just a split second longer than necessary, combined with dilated pupils, means you're DEFINITELY in there. Women are excellent at using the intimate gaze - men are not and often don't even pick up on it when they're on the receiving end of one. A man's intimate gaze is generally very obvious.
The intimate gaze:
Look out for the eyes following the 'triangular formation':
- eye to eye
- then down to the mouth and chin
- down to the rest of the body
- and back up to the eyes again in a triangular formation.
Hands on hips:
Hands on hips is done to make him appear bigger and to show readiness for involvement!
If you're picking up positive signals you're now ready to progress to making the first move.

Well the previous words were just 2 tease someone out there 2 comment the way u Sinan commented so i can finally continue my point :) so thank u Sinan now u made my point easier 2 express. The main point of this blog is not listing ways that a boy can show a gurl he is interested as i said previously coz btw IT TAKES MORE THAN THAT. The point is 2 prove 2 u guys that its not true, as Sinan pointed in his comment :) that this post is not 100% right and at some points not even close.So guys dont take it 4 granted if a gurl laughed at a joke u said or smiled in ur face that she likes u or she has intentions 4 that maybe she is just being POLITE. Also it goes the opposite way she may like u but still shy 2 look in ur eyes. SO THE POINT IS THAT IT'S TRUE 2 A CERTAIN EXTENT. However i do agree with the title of my blog "BODY LANGUAGE SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS" coz it does sometimes for example a simple look deep in the eyes can say things beyond words ;). So now it became a matter of personal opinion which u can agree or disagree with :) But in the end its not a matter of a list i means more than that. So u guys treat gurls the way u like 2 be treated :P meaning understand gurls right if u expect 2 be understood right ;)
Btw Sinan i am looking 4rwd 2 hear ur opinion again being the 1st lucky guy 2 comment ;)

Dedicated to all girls out there ;)
Music mood : Almost here for Delta Goodrem feat. Brian Mcfadden

15 Comments:

  • wow.. mira that proved to me that "this guy" likes me... u know who i am talkin about.. the one who said that i am the one who used to be attracted to him,and never mentioned his feelings towards me.. maaan guys suck

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 3/05/2005 3:45 AM  

  • loooooooooooooool they do and ur right about that guy looooooooool isnt it funny :P

    By Blogger M!R@CHK@, at 3/05/2005 4:22 AM  

  • That's funny I am a man but I very rarely hook my thumb in my belt and usually do that when I am imitating a 60 years old prof.and most of my male friends around me wear the shirt above their pants, so I think sure that can be a sign if you're looking for at least 30 years old guy. As for the gaze I guess we do, but as for hands at hips c'mon not all men are cowboys you know, but a guy would more probably move his hands a lot, raise his voice, laugh loudly, and even make one of his friends call his name, when he's interested in a girl just to draw her attention.

    By Blogger Sinan, at 3/05/2005 4:44 AM  

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    By Blogger Sinan, at 3/05/2005 4:44 AM  

  • Sinan u can read the blog again now my new friend ;)tc

    By Blogger M!R@CHK@, at 3/05/2005 8:20 AM  

  • I knew I shouldn't comment on this blog, I don't like to be on the stage.
    Anyway I agree with Mira, not every kind gesture from the opposite sex has be a clear sign of interest, BUT that differs from class to class. In my opinion the best way to interact with the other sex is the same way you do with yours, I believe that the base of human relationships is friendship, love is just a special kind of friendship, what I am trying to say here is: if you are really interested, try to gain him or her as a friend before then work on your charm :P. I don't know if that has anything to do with the original blog but this is what I have :)

    Your new friend ;)

    By Blogger Sinan, at 3/05/2005 11:42 AM  

  • Hehe Sinan i am sorry u were the one on the stage this time ;) and well i do agree with u about friendship being the base of any kind of relation but 2 a certain level, coz love must be differnt thats y its special in my dictionary love is undefined and cant be limited its 4 everyone but there has 2 be someone special 2 be loved the most :)

    By Blogger M!R@CHK@, at 3/05/2005 12:39 PM  

  • Love hits you in the face without
    even seeing it coming! You can't plan Love, You can't say I want to be friends with someone to love them! It just happens! Love is a big word and not everyone knows what it stands for! You gotta really mean it b4 you say it!

    By Anonymous Mo, at 3/06/2005 1:24 PM  

  • Well love is undefine co i believe is not a word its the whole world ;)thx 4 the comment mo

    By Blogger M!R@CHK@, at 3/06/2005 1:45 PM  

  • Really, I thought that this is just one kind of love, and the weak one come to think of it the one we read about it in books and see in Romance movies, be realistic man and live on earth, what kind of love is the love you got when you first see a woman without even talking to her or knowing if she's your type or not? If you are looking for romance based on your mate beauty well you are right, and I wouldn't call that love I would call it LUST.

    By Blogger Sinan, at 3/06/2005 1:49 PM  

  • I muat agree with all what you have said Mira, coz im sure that "Body language speaks Louder than words",but that does not mean that each gesture is for a spacific meaning, it could be out of politness, or shyness or rudeness, or it coud be that these are all fake for the reason of hooking a gurl or a boy.

    but for me i do believe in body language, but i dont think that it is always understood in the way it is meant to be...

    By Blogger David Nino, at 3/06/2005 10:48 PM  

  • Well Sinan i cant say ur right or wrong coz its a matter of opinions :) maybe i read alot of romantic stories thats y i kinda take things from a dreamy point of view but let me ask u a q my friend!? How can a mother who never saw her child feel a connection 2 him if she ever saw him without recognizing him? Y can u say this is the car of my dreams b4 knowing anything about it and never trying 2 drive it? Y can u sometimes feel u may get in trouble or have an accident after u wake up in the morning? Y is there love if there is nthn special about it? Some ppl Sinan can feel it and can c it in the eyes of the person in front of u? i am not saying that i will know him from the 1st sight,i will know he is the one i will marry and the one i can share my life with in other words the one i will love but dont u think that atleast u will feel that this person in front of u can hold ur hand when u need it and can mean smthn 2 u one day. And i am sure i have 2 talk 2 him really talk 2 him and know him b4 i am sure he is the one but that doesnt cancel the fact that i may feel smthn even if it wasnt love when i 1st c him. I really donno how 2 explain this coz love cant be expressed by words i really believe so but at the end its a matter of opinion and i guess if u believe u can recognize that this person is the one then u will.I wish u all the luck finding the right one sinan.

    I totally agree with u david and u said my point in direct simple words Thx 4 doin that ;)and well i do believe in body language under another meaning, like being with person u love or even like and acting spontaneous without uttering a word can say more than talking all night ;) tc david
    Lol it sounds like a blog by itself lol :P

    By Blogger M!R@CHK@, at 3/07/2005 9:37 AM  

  • Humm well let me first apologize for my last comment, I think I was a little bit carried away. I can't deny that there is some weird kind of feelings someone can have time to time or when he or she sees his or her "soulmate", but I think that people who knows the sour of love tend to brace themselves from these feeling, even in case these feeling are too hard to ignore they don't admit it. Anyway that's kinda differ from one person and another.

    By Blogger Sinan, at 3/07/2005 10:58 AM  

  • LOL Sinan now u got my point thx 4 stepping by u really seem 2 be a nice person :)tc

    By Blogger M!R@CHK@, at 3/07/2005 11:34 AM  

  • Thanks :)

    By Blogger Sinan, at 3/08/2005 1:23 AM  

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